Our COurses


At Desired State we run workshops, courses and learning circles designed to transform your sex and love life by helping you reclaim your sexual desire.

Grab some tea (or a gin!) and a pen- we're about to go on one of the best rides of your life...

Self-Study Courses...

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Join the Five Elements of Desire course for only £36 and:​

  • Get the low-down on the science behind your sex drive and how it *really* works, so you understand how to harness the power of your own desires

  • Discover tools and resources to express and explore your needs with your partner (stopping conflict and pressure around sex in its tracks and ensuring you're only having sex you truly want)

  • Learn you a powerful framework for desire so that you can identify what fuels and extinguishes your passion, and the strategies to reignite it when you want to. 

Ready to spark your sexual desire in only 8 weeks (and keep the fire burning for life?)

Women's Circle Courses...

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Do you want the map to creating the authentic and pleasure-filled sex life you’ve been searching for?


The Art of Sexual Self-Empowerment is our deeply transformative 8 week course. It will take you on a journey of sexual self-discovery where you'll learn what you want in bed, how to ask for it, and how to step into your sexual power.


Learn how to boost your sexual confidence, level up your assertiveness and find your pleasure with us. We can't wait to meet you 🤍